// Biography

I am a queer, ex-Christian, scientist turned agnostic with magical thinking and the parent of two children co-parenting with other queer parents. I am the author of the popular Substack series, Queering Reality, with 100,000 subscribers. My debut memoir in essays, Little Deaths All in a Row, Essays on Sex And Death is available now. I am also the author of two novels: A Map of Everything, a debut finalist for the Lambda Literary Prize; and Like Wings, Your Hands (Red Hen Press), winner of the Women’s Prose Prize (judged by Aimee Bender), the American Fiction Prize for Best LGBTQ novel, and a finalist for the Ferro-Grumley Award for LGBTQ Fiction by the Publishing Triangle, alongside Ocean Vuong and Jacqueline Woodson. In addition to two published works of fiction, I hold an MFA in Fiction from Antioch University-Los Angeles. My stories and essays have appeared in Hayden’s Ferry Review, The First Line Magazine, Fugue, Hair Trigger, and Glimmer Train, among other publications. I was awarded the David Friedman Memorial Prize for Fiction and was twice a finalist for the AWP New Journals Award. I have received two Pushcart nominations and was a finalist for the 2011 Bakeless Literary Prize for Fiction. I am currently the owner of The Feminist Bookstore and  president of Jaded Ibis Press, a nonprofit feminist press committed to publishing socially engaged literature. 

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